The rush, the shouting,
the crowdedness, the blaring horns, the emission spewing vehicles, the littered
road and the stink were now nowhere to be felt. It had been two days, I was
trying to acclimatize to my new residence A-II-254 in the Petrochemicals
Township, sector II. It was a well-planned township with widely spaced rows of
apartment in either side of the road. Come dusk and the parks would turn into a
retiring ground for the aged, a discussion ground for the fathers, a gossip
ground for the mothers and a playground for the children.
The township was newly
constructed, the families had just moved in and the ladies were trying to make
friends with each other. When the husbands were busy in the offices the ladies
got busy with kitty parties.
Once a lady staying on
the opposite side of the road straight in front of my apartment came to my wife
and said “I have come to know that you are good teacher and I want you to help
my son with his studies”. My wife said, that is not right, I do not teach but at
times when your son has difficulty in understanding my husband can help him.
The next day the boy was
at my house, we sat together, he had difficulty in understanding mathematics and
it took around forty-five minutes to solve the problems he couldn't. He left
wearing a smiling.
Few days later he turned
up again, as usual it took around fifty minutes to solve his difficulties; few
more visits revealed that he lacked the basic understanding of mathematics. I
made it clear to him and asked him to work on it. He replied there is a problem
with me, I am forgetful; I do not remember things. He left the place with this
ending remark.
In his next visit, after
solving his problems I asked him, Ganesh what was the movie that was screened
in the open-air-theater the previous week? Can you help me recall it? He
immediately replied, he further went on to the details of the star cast, the
songs, the plot and the climax.
I told him when did you
learn to lie? He was surprised, he said I never lie, every bit of information that
I told you about the movie is correct to the best of my knowledge and belief. If
somebody want to challenge me; I am ready to take up the challenge.
I told him how could the
modus operandi of your brain be biased? Why
does it prefer to remember information about the movies and why does it prefer
not to remember information about you studies. In my observations you have a
fully functional brain; free from error. All that you need to do it reset your
priorities and start liking it. When you start liking it; slowly and slowly you
start loving it and when you start loving it you start seeing it big, you start
seeing it clear, things become easier and joyous. You don’t forget.
All stories do not have a happy ending; few weeks later the family moved to a different location and a couple of months later I came to know that Ganesh was absconding. This story happened in the late eighties. Perhaps if he happens to pass in front of me I may not be able to recognize him but my heart wishes him all the best wherever he is.