At times life continues to
be flat, life continues to be low; it is at this juncture a desire arises to attempt
something new. A new thing is not easy to work on. It is a struggling phase
with high hopes and no solution in sight. Randomness is the order of our
existence, and in line with this randomness if someone pops ups and continues
ever after, one feels happy and contented about his presence. He is referred to
as mentor and the one being served is referred as mentee. Advancing stages of
such a relationship are more rewarding and mentor is seen as a friend
philosopher and guide. I too happened to come across such a person.
Working over the control panel
year over year had made life monotonous and mundane. A desire of doing
something new took me to the French Classes. Day one, there appeared Madhu
Suraiya our French teacher; she started with a formal introduction of the
course, benefits of learning French, career ahead and job opportunities; the
class ended with French alphabets and counting numbers one to ten. The next day
the course took full swings and continued so for all days to follow. French is
never spoken as it is written and never written as it is spoken. Every passing
day escalated my worries and lessened my grip on the subject. Slowly I started
believing that French was not my cup of tea. For a while I would think that
stooping over the panel was a more comfortable proposition then the desire to
break the monotony.
At the home front my
children Vinayak and Bhumika would eagerly wait for me. The moment I opened the
door they would be there with their wide opened expecting eyes and book in
their hands. Before I took up French I would regularly help them with their
studies and care for the examination preparation.
The next day after the
class I walked up to Madhu Madam and told her my desire to leave the class
forever. I explained her reasons. She insisted that I should continue and wait
for fifteen more days. As days passed by we came closer to each other, learning
and understanding French became much easier to the extent that in the end I
cleared the first level with 87 %. This was not the result of the ability of
grasping and reproducing but the result of the fine chemistry that resulted
between a teacher and a student. Apart from the fine chemistry, I was equally
able to devote time for my children; I could see the glow in their eyes for
they too cleared their exams with flying colors. All is well that ends well; songs
to be sung and celebration to be made. It was a joyous phase which often left
me thinking how time changes a sorrowful tide into a joyful tide. I rode that
tide but how did I do it is still a question unanswered. If I were to ask a
flower “How did you transform from a bud to a flower?” Would it be in a
position to answer? I think the answer would be “No”. Perhaps some questions do
not have an answer or they are not required to be answered. See you next time
with the concluding part of this story.
So this is the event that had a big impact later on, which made you a trainer and mentor and resulted in a tough target speech which I miserably failed to decipher, not to mention evaluate :-)
ReplyDeleteAny new venture or learning needs a good mentor. This is what is emphasised in this article. A good mentor can make an otherwise dull subject interesting. The author has explained this in a very simple & lucid language.
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