With
that incident I lost the little courage I had, I have been moving from the
pillar to the post unsuccessfully. With every failed attempt my worry went on
escalating.
I
have no one else to go to and that is the reason, I have come to you. I hope
you won’t let me down.
Yours is a one sided love, but think what if my husband come to know about it; hell
will fall on me!
For
God sake will you, will you, will you stop thinking, will you stop guessing,
will you stop anticipating, will you calm down and lend me an ear.
She
cooled and slumped down in the chair and looked at me.
I
continued, I had a problem with this statement; I have a problem with this
statement. The spirit behind these words has vanished into thin air. The words aren't
working now a day. They don’t caste their magic-spell as they used to in the
past.
Every girl whom I met took this
statement negatively, at least they could have thought about my integrity. You
too don’t have the patience to listen to me, I want you to respond, not to
react. Your response can lift me, you reaction can ditch me.
Like you I too care for my family. I
too care for my children but like the highs and lows in the ocean I am going
through a low phase in my life.
My wife doesn't heed attention when
I say her “I love you.”
You are a lady, you are aware of lady
psychology and besides you are a friend in whom I can confide. I came to you
seeking for a solution to rejuvenate my husband-wife bonding.
That friend in her came alive, her
heart reached out to help me and with all sincerity she said there is a place
and time for everything in life. When she is occupied help her, when she if
free care for her.
Listen
carefully “The way to a man’s heart passes through his stomach and the way to
women heart passes through her eyes”
If
you don’t look at her in the eyes, she feels you don't mean it, she feels you
are not serious, she feels you are not sincere, she feels ignored, she takes
you casually.
Hold
your wife’s hand, look into her eyes and tell her “I love you” then on you won’t
find the need to walk up to me with this question any more.
While
I was thinking over what she said; she took me by the back, gave me a gentle
push and said it is time to act, not to think. Go hurry up, don’t be late.
All
the best.
As
I turned to leave (hoping the advice to work) the timer was staring at me with
the red card held high, cautioning me of getting disqualified. I left the
stage.
Ha,
ha, ha
Really interesting one uncle... :)
ReplyDeleteTrue! Hope to read more on love from you! All the best to your writing!
ReplyDeleteSure I will, there is lot more to come. By the way I would request you to read "The Beginning" and "Generation Gap". These two articles are under the label Youth.
ReplyDeleteAn important label is coming up "Parenting"
Happy reading,