Thursday 9 January 2014

THE STORY OF NARESH IYER

I have attended many Toastmasters meetings. In a Toastmasters’ meeting one is expected to speak being focused on the objectives of the project. Seldom would one find so. During one of my visit to Ibn Zhar Toastmasters club I found a person who was analytically focused about what he spoke. I came to know he was a Lean six sigma specialist and his approach of being focused and analytical was a trait he owed to his profession. I learned that he was a well-read man. The club members used to call him Naresh Iyer.

The visits to Ibn Zhar were occasional and they remained at low profile till 2010-11. Come 2011-12 and TM Khalid Matlagaitu emerged as the District-79 Governor. He propagated the idea of language clubs under which Jubail Tamil Toastmasters Club was one of the clubs that came into existence. I was Assistant Area-17 Governor (Education & Training) and JTTC was under jurisdiction of Area-17.

In one of the JTTC meetings Naresh, Uma and myself were present. She came to know that my family name was Patel and it was during the tea break that she came up to me and asked “Are you from Gujarat?” I replied in affirmative; She replied back, that she was born and brought up in Gujarat, particularly Porbander, the city of Mahatma Gandhi and Naresh was born and brought up in Amdavad. She was happy to relate to somebody from her state of residence. She gracefully invited me to be her guest someday.

Three months down the line Saudi Arabia Toastmasters Annual Conference (SATAC) was scheduled to take place at Dammam Sheraton. Waheed Lateef the conference chairman was looking for dedicated and committed Toastmasters who would share his responsibilities. He wanted me to be the chairman of Public relation and media committee, further more Naresh would be supporting me. I expressed a different opinion, why not have it the other way, let Naresh lead and me assist him. Naresh accepted it and then started our team work. Naresh was very clear in his vision, as usual he would analyze things to the finest details. He wanted me to specifically focus on e-magazine. He efficiently managed a conglomeration of diverse team members. The hidden hand behind his apparent personality and success is Uma whom he has narratively described as “Those beautiful eyes” and in response Uma says “I love him for the reason he is a person so open that he never masks himself, the feelings from his heart come out through his words unaltered.”

Back home many would like to listen to me, some student expressed that they came to learn French but the learned many things apart from French, in the Toastmasters many used to ask me, how do you organize your speech? How do you arrive to the climax of your speech? From where do you get thoughts? These were the questions those inclined me towards the thought of writing a book.

It was on our way to Damaam that I expressed my desire of writing a book. He expressed, instead of a book, why not write a blog? I told him I do not know anything about it. One day he invited me to be his guest, opened a blog site for me, loaded five of them and said this is your baby, take care and keep going, when in trouble, call me. When I expressed my thanks, he said it’s nothing; anybody could have done it for you.

For him it might be like igniting a match stick but for me it caused a bonfire and made things visible clear. It has helped me set a benchmark for myself; it has helped me reach you readers across the globe which wouldn't have happened had I opted to write a book. This blog marks the 51st blog on Emergence and I owe Naresh a big thanks and a big hug.

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